This post is dedicated to one of my best friends of all time, who, with the joyous birth of her son this morning, was herself reborn - as a mother.
I wrote this a few weeks ago but, as I've been neglecting my little blog, hadn't gotten around to posting it yet. I figure today is the day to hit the "publish" button, since this everything I want her to know about motherhood. I only hope it isn't too dark for such a happy occasion.
As a mother, your life will be forever changed.
As a mother, you will have some of the highest highs and lowest lows you have ever experienced in life.
As a mother, you will come to know certain things. You will develop a sixth sense. You will become just the slightest bit clairvoyant.
As a mother, you will be a small being's source of nourishment, source of comfort, and whole world.
As a mother, you will know if your child is feverish just by brushing your lips against his forehead.
As a mother, you will sacrifice.
As a mother, your best self and your worst self will meet and shake hands. On a regular basis.
As a mother, you will be needed at just the moment when you thought you could give no more.
As a mother, you will dig down, dig in, dig deep.
As a mother, you will hold on.
As a mother, you will sometimes have to let go.
As a mother, you will deliver magic healing kisses.
As a mother, you will know a new, somewhat uncomfortable, level of vulnerability.
As a mother, you will be your own worst critic.
As a mother, you will find hidden reserves of patience you had no idea you possessed.
As a mother, you will worship ten tiny fingers and ten tiny toes.
As a mother, you will experience an unearthly connection to another soul.
As a mother, you will make mistakes.
As a mother, you will have to forgive yourself.
As a mother, you will know a love like no other.
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Sunday, October 27, 2013
As A Mother
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Friday, August 10, 2012
Now.
Now is...
Waiting for baby (who, by the way, is now three days late - but who's counting?)
Seeking shade for an afternoon snack.
Dressing up in leftover beads and rainbows from the Pride parade.
Sunset beach picnics.
Helping Mommy make her shopping list.
Sidewalk chalk.
Walking to Starbucks with Daddy.
Ice cream dates with special friends.
Summer is now, and now is good.
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friendship,
good,
photos,
summer
Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Saying Goodbye
Last week, we had to say goodbye to some very dear friends who are moving back to Australia. For two years, they have been just across the courtyard from us and now they will be across the world, on a whole other continent. To say that we are sad about the void they are leaving behind doesn't even begin to cover it.
We did, however, manage to cram in some pretty amazing moments on their last night here. The plan was a picnic dinner in the park, but the real highlights came spontaneously.
Running and climbing and wrestling,
streaking through the spray park in the buff (okay, that one was just the three-year-olds),
hugs and kisses all around,
And of course, lots and lots of smiles.
Goodbye, sweet friends. You will be dearly missed. You taught each of us so much in the last two years, not least of which was to expand Lilah's definition of family. She will grow up knowing that families don't necessarily have to consist of one mommy, one daddy, and their kid(s), but beyond that, and even more importantly, she now knows that friends, good friends, are the family you get to choose for yourself.
We are going to miss the moments we shared, but know that, even though you are far away for now, there will be many more of these moments to come.
We did, however, manage to cram in some pretty amazing moments on their last night here. The plan was a picnic dinner in the park, but the real highlights came spontaneously.
Running and climbing and wrestling,
streaking through the spray park in the buff (okay, that one was just the three-year-olds),
hugs and kisses all around,
And of course, lots and lots of smiles.
Goodbye, sweet friends. You will be dearly missed. You taught each of us so much in the last two years, not least of which was to expand Lilah's definition of family. She will grow up knowing that families don't necessarily have to consist of one mommy, one daddy, and their kid(s), but beyond that, and even more importantly, she now knows that friends, good friends, are the family you get to choose for yourself.
We are going to miss the moments we shared, but know that, even though you are far away for now, there will be many more of these moments to come.
Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life.
~~Omar Khayyam
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Thursday, July 19, 2012
Young Love, Recyled
I posted these photos on a Wordless Wednesday in July last year, when these two were completely enamored of each other:
They're still great friends, but their relationship has changed a little. Now Lilah has taken to telling him she's the mommy and he's the baby and she gives him timeouts but refuses to give him hugs and kisses when it's time to say goodbye. Not sure what that says about my parenting...?
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best friends,
birthday,
friendship,
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motherhood,
toddlers
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
Now We Are Three
We held Lilah's third birthday party on the weekend at our nearest playground that also includes a spray park. She got to share it with one of her besties whose birthday happens to be exactly one week after hers, and it seems a good time was had by all.
But I'm pretty sure she did like the rainbow cupcakes I made. I've been dreaming of these babies for months!
| The birthday boy and girl |
Thankfully, summer arrived in Vancouver just in time for the party.
| This is the face she always makes when cold water is involved. |
| Lilah's daycare provider (who I basically think of as the woman who looks after my kid while I am away from home playing with other people's kids) |
I remembered to slather my kid with sunscreen repeatedly but of course forgot to do myself the same favour. Result: burnt preggers.
| Photo by Captain Canada of Schwartz Chronicles fame. |
The candles would not stay lit in the breeze, so we had to pretend. Here's what Lilah thought of that:
| Also taken by Captain Canada |
Phew, I'd forgotten what a lot of work throwing a large birthday party is, but I think we pulled it off!
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friendship,
park,
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photos,
wednesday of few words,
wordless wednesday
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
So Close We Can Taste It
Okay, so I realize it's not summer quite yet, but on Saturday the Vancouver weather gods gave us a lovely taste of what we hope is to come. And it was delicious. Intoxicating.
We greedily basked in the golden light of early evening but gladly shared it with good friends.
These kids enjoyed this little spoonful of summer so much that they wore it all over their adorably dirty little faces.
For now, we will let this small taste sustain us, but it won't be long before we are banging our spoons on the table and begging for more!
We greedily basked in the golden light of early evening but gladly shared it with good friends.
These kids enjoyed this little spoonful of summer so much that they wore it all over their adorably dirty little faces.
For now, we will let this small taste sustain us, but it won't be long before we are banging our spoons on the table and begging for more!
“Summertime is always the best of what might be.”
― Charles Bowden
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friendship,
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summer,
wednesday of few words,
wordless wednesday
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